Friday, May 19, 2017

UNREQUITED LOVE: Part-3 The Resolution"

A POEM
UNREQUITED LOVE: Part-3
The Resolution

You have been with me till now and I must thank you for your esteemed company!
For now it feels real that sorrow definitely lessens when shared with many!!
The tittle of this final part is sure to get lot of hopes up, but, get a grip!
You might be in for a surprise if you are expecting a fun filled trip!!
We love to love, we long to love, we want to love, but do we know why!
We are ready to put in efforts, time, even money; and to make sure it is our best try!!
In your ‘why’ hides the understanding which can take you closer to your resolution!
It might be your solution or just the first drop of the much needed magical potion!!
To love, you know, is no easy game; it takes a lot, from you!
But, you happily invest all you got, feeling all you feel is true!!





For we ignore that emotional truth is the most subjective of all!
And we feel we are on the right path, irrespective of, whether we rise or fall!!
To let go is no different sport, it takes the same investments, if not more!
You might wish for speedy recovery, but it can take a while for you to be sure!!


It becomes really hard to be able to pull yourself away!
It is not something you want to, but you know you should do!
Every new day seems to bring with it a new level of difficulty your way!!
You do not want to feel regretful, but more you try, harder it pulls you!!

You try to talk to friends, pour your heart out and seek their help to come out of this!
But when by self, your inner voice reminds you that how all you ever wanted was this!!
The emotional conflict seems like a painfully draining yet never ending game of tug of war!
Even though some battles are won, it still seems like a far fetched idea to win the war!!





You feel like you are making tireless and continuous efforts towards a blurred goal!
Then there comes a day where your struggles start to make sense as a whole!!
No one can deny time its rightful place; Try doing that, and you might lose your face.



It has taken time for you to reach and feel a reduced intensity in your emotion!
So please sit back and relax as it will be a while still, for the reverse motion!!

The above understanding needs to be a constant reminder!
If you make it your mantra, it shall be your path finder!!

One needs to put in the right efforts, have the right support and be on the right path!
Such a journey will create a new you from what seemed like the God’s wrath!!


Some questions start to get answers, some disappear!
And you know it is time for the new you to appear!!
What you experienced was special, probably most special for you!
But your life in reality begins with you and ends as well, with you!!

Love is life, for it must end one day, it prepares you well for the dooms day.

Cherishing your lost love can teach you to cherish all that has been lost!
For there is learning in all, to grow is our duty, no matter what’s the cost!!

To not love again as you got hurt could be futile, as life with love makes it worthwhile.

You do not stop eating just because you had food poisoning and experienced stomach ache!
Then why to stop loving just because this journey was tough and you experienced a heart break!!


 It is important to remember that Love is a basic need that we must strive to fulfill!
Who knows, may be the right person is waiting up the hill!!

However, that being said, you can learn to be more cautious and patient!
And remind yourself that life is a journey, where we change both train and station!!
To love someone truly, one must love self! To get support one must assist others and help self!!


Real love stems from real connection, which happens when you are self-aware!
You know it’s not an unfulfilled desire but a genuine feeling of love and care!!

Hence, learning to let go of someone is something you need to learn!
If not, then in time you shall see that once again, it is, your turn!!
So it is ok to take ones time but be open to learn and grow!
Because if your perception differs, you probably wouldn’t enjoy this show!!
If you manage to start your process of healing!
Then for sure, letting go would be a liberating feeling!!
To move on, might not be so bad, it may lead to a NEW YOU!
 But remember just like the part you let go, this too, is only a PART OF YOU!!



13 comments:

  1. What a terrific poem. And what depth and perspective. What choice of quotes. If you hadn't written your name, I wouldn't have believed you wrote it.
    What an ingenuity. Can't still believe it.
    Hearty congratulations and blessings - Papa

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  2. Thanks a ton dad..means the world

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  3. Thanks for writing such a nice poem varun.. u always inspire👍🏻

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  4. This is superb ..intense and thought provoking. Keep writing ..will be a pleasure to read more of it.

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  5. Hi Varun, have just read Unrequited Love...part 3. It is obvious that you have written these pieces from the depths of your soul. One can certainly sense the anguish and helplessness of your emotions. Which makes it difficult and yet very engaging and moving. I however feel, that Love can never be possessed, nor would it be possessed.For Love is sufficient unto Love ! Khalil Gibran, in his book " The Prophet" says, "But if you Love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of Love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully."
    Having said this, I must confess that to Bleed willingly and joyfully is almost like an Oxymoron to the word Love...... Love has the most incredible healing powers. It is the greatest and most powerful of all emotions man has ever felt. We may possess all other attributes of Life..but if have not Love... it is all in Vain.

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    1. Thank u so much deepanjali for the profound meaning and knowledge....i really appreiate it.....and i do agree love has healing powers and its d most amazing feeling.the feelings shared here aren't mine but comes from the experience I gained by working with various people and their relationship issues.

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  6. Simply awesome Varun... I've read part 1 and 2 as well, very inspirational �������� Gives a ray of hope for especially those suffering from a heart ache which is the case of a good number of our population. Awaiting your next article

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    1. Thank u tasneem..your feedback is an inspiration

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